I think the objective for very all of guys in this community is to receive a girlfriend. They don't need to sleep with strippers, they don't need to have a 5-some, they don't need to be dating twenty females without delay. Sure these things would be lovely, but at the finish of the day they need to have cold woman to be with. However, not only do they need a girlfriend, they badly need a girlfriend...
Here's what is so paradoxical about this... The more you need to be in a relationship, the harder it becomes to actually get in. It is the most counter-intuitive, counter-productive mind screw of the dating world. There's a lot of reason why this holds so true. For, having a powerful desire to be with a specific woman KILLS your game. You might...
- Become needy. This includes calling much, desirous to spend way much time along with her and usually giving her much attention. She'll feel it is "too much, soon" and become freaked out.
- Become emotional. Possibly you get annoyed if they doesn't call you back, if they decides to go clubbing along with her friends or has to break designs with you. Possibly you get jealous in the event you see her speaking with other guys, heck even taking a look at other guys.
- Become a try-hard. Since you need her to like you, you might qualify yourself on a regular basis, try to say and do things to impress her, try not to be disagreeable and usually come off as trying way hard for her to like you.
- Read much in to things. You might over-analyze and over-think the most basic things. Say you meet her at a bar and in lieu of speaking to your right away, they goes and talks along with her friends for a couple of minutes. You might freak out and read way much in to the situation, thinking they doesn't like you anymore.
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